Hello from the other side
I must’ve called a thousand times
To tell you I’m sorry for everything that I’ve done
But when I call you never seem to be home
Hello from the outside
At least I can say that I’ve tried
To tell you I’m sorry for breaking your heart
But it don’t matter, it clearly doesn’t tear you apart
Archives for November 2015
I’ve been needing to write this yet dreading it. When I was growing up my mommy and Oprah were my female idols…still are! Women like these were referred to as queens, smart, and bosses. While amazingly beautiful, queens and bosses had more going for them than big tits, a big ass, and a pussy with endless mileage. Now thanks to reality tv and a bunch of talentless girls…the bad bitch emerged. They are now the role models for our young girls. Here’s 11 reasons why the bad bitch must die!
11. The bad bitch is generally only referred to as a bad bitch because of her looks. Mean while a million Instagram photos later no one knows if this bitch can read nor write.
10. If the bad bitch has kids, they do not appear to be her focus as she publicly goes from relationship to relationship and man (or woman) to man. Now I believe that men and women can be hoes! And frankly if you single with no kids I could care less how many people and/or relationships you run through. But you do know that when you are a parent, whether you are the mom or dad, these countless sexual encounters and relationships, especially when made public, can deeply affect your children! More importantly, with so many fathers missing, especially in the black community, an absent minded slutty mommy can wreck what’s left of our family structure. Do what you want when you don’t have kids but once you do, please try to make them a priority as they did not ask to be born!
9. The bad bitch is usually known for who she is currently sleeping with or who her baby daddy is. God made women to be so much more than just a man’s sexual conquest! We have so much more to offer.
8. Not to mention while the bad bitch is plugging how good her pussy is…her dude/man whore is soon to be on to the next! News flash! PUSSY HAS NO FACE! So while the bad bitch think hers is unique another bitch (probably her friend) is doing kegels and making a play for the bad bitch’s current conquest.
7. With the rate that the bad bitch is getting pregnant/having abortions is anyone wearing condoms and getting tested for stds anymore?! I always wonder this especially about all the reality shows in Atlanta. The dating pool is so small and everybody has sampled everyone!
6. The bad bitch has nothing to give nor leave the world but sex. She is no “Foxy Brown.” She doesn’t solve mysteries and take crime off the street. She’s not a producer nor writer. She’s just pussy…ouch.
5. The bad bitch was really created out of the need to be loved. Many grew up in daddyless homes where mom may have barely been able to set an example. The bad bitch really needs a hug and some serious therapy. No matter how much attention she gets, nothing will fill the void of a father.
4. Now let me be clear. I’ve no issue when a woman chooses to be a stripper etc. If that is your craft and you are good at it, by all means, have at it! I do, however, have a problem with the bad bitch infiltrating these artful careers just for attention and giving them a bad name! Maybe I’m the first to tell you this BUT bad bitch you are no stripper (or if you were one you weren’t good at it) and definitely are no porn star! Leave these fields to women who love doing it and are great at it. There’s nothing cute about you dancing for quarters at your grandpa’s 80th birthday party! Get it together and choose a career besides being a hot mess!
3. Somewhere deep inside, I know the bad bitch is a good person. Maybe family life wronged her or a life of abuse caught up to her and she just got plain lost! But we can’t have you rummaging around in the black communities and tainting our future queens! Bad bitch….you have been evicted! We are no longer claiming you!
2. To all those pimping…um I meant promoting the bad bitch on tv (yea I’m talking to the Mona Scott’s and Debra Lee’s of the world…y’all going to hell in gasoline draws for helping to ruin our communities!!! In this hell, I hope that you are bad bitches in another life. May you be a washed up pretend stripper with 8 kids and no baby daddy as someone exploits you!
And 1. The number one reason why the bad bitch must die? For those that are connected to powerful and intelligent men but learned nothing from these men except how to be their baby mama…you just dumb! That’s right…the bad bitch is unintelligent! She would eat her name on a piece of bread! She would sell her pussy for NOTHING. She has no integrity! Y’all better go get on your Kimora Lee Simmons’ hustle and build your own dynasty! She don’t need to be twerking for dollars nor hustling men for money! She took her baby and created Baby Phat. Yes bow down bitches?? One day these bad bitches going to be old as fuck and that wrinkled up pussy ain’t going to be doing it anymore. Bad bitch, where is your investment? Where is your 401k? Baby it gets cold outside and you don’t got no coat! I don’t care if it’s a formal education or a trade, but learn to have something for yourself! Never allow yourself to be used and abused! Build your own dynasty! You do that and you will be….FLAWLESS! ~KJM on Temptation Tuesday. I was raised by Mama Michaels, a BOSS! You can check my credentials bitches??✌?️
I will grease my legs and work on 42nd street as a living prostitute to give you guys everything you want and need! I will not let you suffer in this country! I am your MOTHER!
A new beginning with grace is possible after major storms. Last night I was having a conversation with a close friend. As she dropped some wisdom on me…I realized I was meant to hear what she had to say. Almost nothing is accidental. God/the universe sends us messages in so many different ways. This amazingly beautiful woman had been through some life altering trials and tribulations yet managed to have a successful career and raise awesome children. If she wasn’t bitter about being mislead and deceived for decades….why was I so angry with my ex factor?! Forgiveness is a process and contrary to popular belief, it takes time for most of us to achieve. There’s been days I get so angry about wasted time, lies, and just the way I allowed myself to be treated. That’s right….I’m taking responsibility for my part! I’m no one’s victim. As I heard my friend’s voice speak of hope and happiness, I got disappointed in myself. The last couple years, as the ex factor was stepping all over my feelings, I’ve been walking around like a wounded puppy! It’s like I was forgetting my blessings. That God had rescued me and my life had continued with the possibility for new love. Why is it easier for most of us to carry around our baggage with fear and anger than wear them like a badge of honor…in a way that most war veterans do with their medals? I just want to unpack my suitcase and be happy! I want to be a beam of hope like my friend is for me. The amount of respect I have for her and others like her can never be expressed. Nothing has nor will hold her back. She wears her medals of honor proudly. Things that could have destroyed her….empowered her. I salute her! If any of you are like me and have been walking around broken, bruised, angry, and full of fear, let’s take today to start the process. Let’s take the first step into starting a new beginning with grace! Whether that means getting therapy, entering rehab, or simply just gracefully turning the page with a smile on our faces….let’s try! It’s all a process and together I think we can do it! Be blessed my friends. ~KJM on a fallback Monday but still pushing forward 🙂