To fully understand my quote you must click on the picture that comes with it. QUOTE: #rp I agree with BOTH comments. You see these guys aren’t saying they don’t want a relationship the day they meet you(that I could respect). Instead they wait until you are in love to mind fuck you. So that is abuse. They emotionally have trained us to stay then they pull the bait and switch. But the moment he utters he isn’t ready for a relationship and we are still dating and loving only him…we have signed up to continuously be abused (in my case emotionally and mentally)! Honesty and transparency are what’s missing here. We are already loyal to our abusers by the time the abuse starts. The crazy thing is I grew up around so much domestic violence but always thought I was different from the women in the generation above me. And I’m not. I ain’t never been hit but I’ve been indirectly told I’m less than and I accepted this untrue narrative about myself. To the guys doing this shit…you are abusers because you use our love against us and then tell us it’s our fault we stayed BUT you groomed us to stay. You of course already knew that. I read something recently that said to make the decision to not go back to someone is an EVERYDAY decision and not a one time one. It’s like being a recovering addict for life…and that’s fucking profound ?? ~KJM in the early hours of Serenity Sunday. #blackgirlmagic #blackwomen #blackgirlswhoblog #blacklove
Recent Comments