Remember me? Yea it’s that same chick that is all about herself….her…SELF LOVE…that is. ?? Often times, I’m so misunderstood. Most times, I don’t really stop to correct folks either. Lol. I’m not perfect but I sure do live in my own world almost all of the time. And that ain’t a bad thing for a non married woman with no children! It’s exactly where I should be actually. Focused on me. As I’m growing, however, I’m starting to realize that there are times that one must put others first. As a single woman though….those times are few, far, and in between!?? Here’s my top 3 MISS ME WITH THAT list from Oh Picky Selfish Me: 3. THE HE UGLY AS FUCK AND SMELL LIKE SHIT BUT HE’S A MAN WHO WANTS ME SYNDROME (The Oh Picky Me Mini Edition): I know that some men feel like a woman should just be happy to have a man but um…hell naw! Life is about more than limp dicks who want to beat women down physically and emotionally!?? Sad to say that some of us women buy into this theory too! Got an abled bodied man in the house not working and/or not helping to raise the kids! MISS ME WITH THAT! I would rather live alone in a house full of real dogs than have a man dog living off of me and only providing dick! When did dick get so good that all our damn common sense went out the window when we saw it? Did I like miss the memo?! ? 2.THE LOVE HIM MORE THAN ME SYNDROME (The Oh Selfish Me Mini Edition): yea okay…never! Lol. I know they say never say never but um…I highly doubt it. Even though I’m so disappointed in myself for all the chances I gave Julio and the Ex Factor in my life…I am human and I do love. However, any man that I love should love and respect me for always loving myself a little bit more than him…if not a lot more! ?? We as women set the standard for what we are worth and while I will entertain the man I love saying he’s trying to do right…the minute I see he isn’t…you can expect my ass to go LEFT!✌?️ I love hard but I love myself even more. For those of you who love to destruction, are there not times that you can’t stomach looking at that man that’s driving you to the insane asylum and back?! Cause that’s where I was with Julio 7 years ago (never came back from it) and where I am currently vacationing with the Ex Factor!?? Like disrespecting myself and settling for less (in love) literally leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I can no longer look at myself in the mirror when I’m stomaching the bullshit. So yes I’m quite selfish when I exit with the quickness. Ain’t nobody got time for that! MISS ME WITH ALL OF THAT! Get your shit together or don’t step to me at all!?? 1. THE NEED TO PLEASE EVERYBODY AS THEY SUCK THE KINDNESS OUT OF ME SYNDROME (The Oh All About My Own Feelings Mini Edition): why does society tell women especially to be kind and nice no matter what?! Has anyone ever told you that not everyone deserves your kindness? Or that some folks deserve the cold shoulder and silence? Or that some folks earned that good old fashioned cussing out coming their way? Sistas…we will lose our minds trying to please everybody but ourselves! Like who puts you first? Who is staying up at night trying to figure out how to make you happy? Before you even answer those questions, are you doing those things for yourself? Who makes you a priority if you don’t? Girl…I hear your silence and it’s deafening! MISS ME WITH THAT! Oh Picky Selfish Me is more than a title…it’s a way of life and survival! And it damn sure is a necessity if you ever plan on finding and living your happiness! My love life may be in the toilet but my life is good! Oh Picky Selfish Me picks up the pieces of a hot damn mess I create when I leave myself behind! And then a rejuvenated me steps forward with strength, works harder at my two careers, and books a damn trip FOR MYSELF and BY MYSELF! You see…I can always count on ME!?? ~KJM on Charm School Monday saying that some folks need a class in Oh Picky Selfish Me! Love thy self the most, often, and with everything in you!?
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