Our hands meet and each time it feels awesome! Elijah kisses me so intensely that it feels like he has been waiting years to taste my lips. Even when he annoys me, I feel at home with him. Like I could share all my secrets and he wouldn’t judge me for any of it. But as time goes on, I get nervous. My previous track record with Julio, the ex factor, and the rest of those fools seems to be haunting me. And when I read articles on Star Jones, Terri McMillan, Tasha Smith, and Sherri Shepherd who all entered into deceitful marriages thinking they found love, chills go up and down my spine. While I’m not famous and am younger than them…I still worry that because I’m not in my 20s, my radar may be off. But wait….I wish I could erase almost every boy I dated in my 20s (and early 30s for that matter). So that leaves me with the question, how do you know you have truly found the one? I’ve had many people ask if Elijah is MY ONE?! I know that he is different from the rest and appears to be very patient with me but this could just be his honeymoon face. The thought of the one is nerve wracking! Who is he? When do you know for sure? How do you know you have found the real deal? Or is it just a risk we have to be willing to take each time? Is the heart even strong enough to do so? ~KJM on Throwback Thursday saying those of you that have found the one…please share how you knew?