Happy Hump Day! Meant to write a blog yesterday but ended up catching up on some of my favorite blogs (like ToiTime) instead of writing. ? Today I want to tackle the big elephant in the room! According to a few articles I have recently read (and old wives tales), the Male Libido is at its peak in their teens/early 20s and starts to wane (decrease) from there on while we women have a huge increase going all the way into our 40s and beyond! ?? Payback is a bitch! Men never thought all them years of tricking but not treating the women who love them would catch up to them but it does! ?? Truth be told, if we weren’t sold the Virgin Mary story, women could outdo man from the jump! We can have continuous climaxes without our bodies ever stopping! ?? Yas lawd! It’s finally good to be a woman…that is if them fools can get us to the climaxing phase! ? But I digress! Loss of Male Libido is something no one wants to talk about. The topic cuts a man’s balls off…so to speak…and we women spend so much time internalizing shit that we either think our men are no longer into us or he is cheating! ? While anything is possible…for each man is different…there’s a huge possibility the waning Male Libido (don’t know why autocorrect keeps capitalizing this shit lol) will affect most men in their long term relationships! The minus here is until this happens your man may be in every woman’s back door (if he is a dog that is). ??? The plus is when his stock is going down (literally) there’s a chance yours will go up! ?? So what you gonna do, Sis?! Lol. There may be a time when “you gotta have it” and “one man won’t satisfy you.” You are now fully in the driver’s seat as Erectile Dysfunction (ED) generally comes after the waning Male Libido! ? Funny…but not funny! This is a good time to say that this isn’t an article about how your man can overcome ED. Nope! ✌? I’m no doctor though I have been through the waning libido scenario with more than one man. It takes patience, understanding, and taking the pressure off the sexual act while helping to relieve your man’s other stresses that may be affecting your bedroom action. So once again…I’m no doctor. Just a female blogger who is pointing out the sexual irony here. Most men love to roam but Sis…they really not built for the job! WE ARE! ?? If there is some woman right now crying because of her cheating man….rest assured that he’s getting ED wrapped up in his Christmas stocking stuffer one of these days! ? But I digress again! We women need to relax on making everything about us! Sometimes the penis doesn’t work…because it just doesn’t! Take a deep breathe, resuscitate it if you can, and wake up as the goddess you are! These issues will come up the longer you are with someone. I once had a more mature female friend tell me that you don’t even know dick until you are in your 40s! ? Apparently out of the shadow of those premenopausal hot flashes is a penis that we cannot wait to ride! ? Oh my! ? I am not ready…or am I? ? Either way, we have earned orgasms until the day we die! If the statistics are correct though…you may have to find a younger man to give you those Big Os until you hit the grave! ?? You ain’t got to love him…you just got to enjoy fucking him! ???? Happy Humping my Queens! ~KJM on Hump Day! ?