Well it’s Throwback Thursday and of course, I’m going to go to a place where most women would like to avoid…loss of libido! I have always heard that many factors can contribute to a change in a woman’s libido like pregnancy and stress. When Elijah and I were dating, 98% of our relationship was sexless. I think this was because (a) we are both workaholics and (b) we argued all the time! I like a nice MUTE man! Yes you read that right. Why do you think the ex factor and I lasted for 5 years! He was handsome and fucking mute! Guys, you get laid more if you just shut the fuck up and agree with your woman or at least silently disagree. The ex factor, being 8.5 years younger than me, and I always had sex while dating…even if at times it felt like a routine. I really loved him and the only time I would withhold sex from him is if we were on a break. The ex factor and I had great chemistry but that was partly because he loves dominant women and I love to…well dominate! ?? Elijah, on the other hand, was four years older than me and loved to be in control. I can’t get wet if I’m not in control of my sexual experience and that’s the damn truth! I don’t need to be in control all the time but I’m a rider! Ok maybe a little too much information! Lol. Well perhaps I shouldn’t stop here. My ending with Elijah killed what was left of my libido. I haven’t had sex since November and if I don’t have it for another couple years…I will be just fine. This is why the art of masturbation is so important for women. To most of the men I have dated, my G spot is hidden but for some reason my fingers always finds it in 30 seconds or less! ?? The owner of my hair salon recently told me that she thinks I’m too good at pleasing myself that I’ve made men obsolete! This may be true! I’m at a point in my life where I would like to bump into true and everlasting love, companionship, and respect. Sex isn’t high up on my list. To be honest, a dog could give me love, respect, and companionship but my work schedule is too hectic to have a pet right now. ? Also, I’m currently trying to find a new job, new apartment, and just overall revamp my life! STRESS is everywhere! So my libido just went south and in not a good way! The one good thing is I’m able to date without my vagina responding to anyone. She’s got a big “DO NOT ENTER” sign on her and until I put up a “PROCEED WITH CAUTION” sign up…I’m able to focus on getting to know a guy better so I can pay attention to what he does verses what he says. I definitely miss my libido but at the same time it’s quite freeing to know…she only gets wet and climaxes for me!?? ~KJM on Throwback Thursday saying someone out there do your spouse real good for me today! Lmfao! Ode to my libido! Lol
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