One night I was snuggled up with my honey watching the Matrix. I had never seen the movie all the way through. Cuddled up, I buried myself in his beard and I planted kisses all over his face. It did not seem to bother the Ex Factor much but he should have probably been concerned when I pulled out my Victoria Secret’s lip gloss…called So Jelly! ?It’s my absolute favorite because it provides so much moisture while giving me this rainbow of glitter mixed in a purple and pink gloss. Yum! ? Now to give you a good idea of how strong my lip gloss game is….I wear it even to bed! ? I cannot sleep if I feel like my lips are dry and I have always been this way. With my So Jelly on, I continued to caress and kiss my honey until I started to doze off. He typically plays basketball at night with his friends and family so as I slipped off to dream land…he headed out for his game. The next morning, AFTER I SHOWERED, I could not help but notice my entire forehead was filled with glitter! Shit! That probably means my boo balled with my glitters all over him!?I immediately text him and apologized. I know dudes can make fun of each other over silly stuff like coming to the court looking like he just got rolled in a bottle of glitter…so I felt really bad. The Ex Factor told me it was okay. Even if he was filled with glitter, he had not noticed and since it was a cold day…he had a hat on too. My boo did not mind having little tiny glittery memories of me following him throughout the day. ? Strangely enough, the Ex Factor’s response reminded me of how Elijah use to react to my love of lip gloss! Elijah would ask me to remove my lip gloss before kissing him! ? It annoyed the hell out of me then but brought me great comfort now. As that dude Elijah still tries to make himself relevant in my life, I am continuously comforted by the fact that making the decision to dump him on April 1, 2016, was the best damn decision for me! With the Ex Factor, I can just be myself. No fuss. No makeup even needed! Most of the time, I am actually not wearing makeup when spending time with the Ex Factor. But I love the fact that he can appreciate my love of lip gloss and not try to change that about me! ?? That is all Elijah did for the 7 disastrous months we dated…tried to change me and train me. No sir….I think not! Not only am I no longer attracted to Elijah when I see him…I’m pretty sure that I would never have noticed him if he had not stepped to me. He’s just that forgettable. My man don’t mind wearing some of me on the basketball court and I love smelling like him all throughout the day. A man who takes me as I am…is the type of man I would actually take his last name and ride for him for life! ?? While Elijah out there trying to train chicks…he better get himself right because New York and New Jersey women always got options. I would rather be with a silent yet intelligent GQ looking guy that loves me for who I am than a dude in a suit that is always smelling his arm pits! ✌?Figuratively…of course. Lol. I am sorry I had to learn this lesson the hard way but I am glad I learned it! There’s so much I was not appreciating about the Ex Factor because I was wrapped up in how stuff looks instead of how it really is. Only God knows if we will make it as a couple but right now I’m so grateful and thankful to have him in my life! And that’s the revelation that was made with one glittery kiss! ?~KJM on Hump Day saying I really do love my Babe! Staying focused on the good and not worrying myself with things I cannot control…like the future. That’s truly God’s work anyways. ?